Our Resource Blog Welcome! This is our growing collection of videos, poetry, articles, book descriptions and other resources that we hope you find inspiring, useful and/or entertaining. AllDepressionEmotionsMindfulnessOur Embodied BrainsParents & ChildrenPoetryRelationshipsSelf-Compassion Proud To Love - celebrating marriage equality and LBTQ relationships Years ago I worked with a young boy, who asked to see me on his own, and when we met he asked me to talk with his mom who he loved very much and needed very much. Esther Perrel: Our competing needs for Security and Adventure Esther Perel, who travels the globe with her intense passion to understand couples experiences, and to teach about the mysteries of eroticism, delivers 19 minutes powerful insight into the ordinary struggles that couples face. From the Author of "I Don't Want To Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression." For 40 years, Terry Real has been working with men and their families, addressing the crisis of masculinity. In this talk from 21 years ago, he speaks candidly of his own story, growing up the son of a rager, who grew up as the son of another rager. Gabor Maté: The surest way to go to hell is to run away from hell. In this short beautiful video, Gabor Maté simply shares his wisdom of the pain underlying all addiction, whether it be alcohol, drugs, relationships, shopping, sex or anything else. How Parenting by Connection Stops Children's Aggressive Behaviour The best book on parenting that I have ever come across is Listen, by Patty Wiplfer and Tosha Schore. They demonstrate consistently that calm presence and limit setting, day in day out, provides children with the necessary experience of being regulated while in connection. "When your eyes freeze behind the gray window..." BEANNACHT On the day when The weight deadens On your shoulders And you stumble, May the clay dance To balance you.